07/16/2024
Top Eight Tips For Doing Unto Others:
Taking The Golden Rule of Jesus To The Next Level
The following are eight principles that work in almost all circumstances as we follow through on our commitment to treat others as we wish to be treated. I intended to use this in Sunday’s sermon but totally spaced it.
1. Listen long and hard—try to understand what someone is communicating before you begin thinking about your response or sharing your own ideas and experiences
2. Go out of your way to be helpful when others are in obvious need of a helping hand. (Being inconvenienced is the hallmark of faithful disciples of Jesus.)
3. Be twice as patient with others as you’d like them to be patient with you. (You can never go wrong with adding extra patience).
4. Don’t read ulterior motives into the actions of others. Assume the best about others as you’d want them to assume the best about you.
5. Offer a specific act of support and caring when someone is going through a rough patch. Avoid an offer of “If you need anything”. Instead try, ‘What can I do to be helpful? Mow your lawn, cook your dinner, walk your dog, etc.’
6. Be encouraging and positive just as you enjoy being surrounded by encouragement and optimism. Look to ‘catch’ the people around you being good.
7. Admit your mistakes readily and apologize immediately when you’ve hurt someone’s feelings or done something unworthy of your calling in Christ.
8. Offer to pray for someone and follow through with it. Taking prayer for others seriously is a powerful way to care for another. (Whether folks believe in God or not, making the offer will help them believe that you want what is best for them. Prayer is our way of expressing that.)
Archived Posts
Power Without Conscience?
I ran out of room for this vignette in Sunday’s sermon. Remember the quote that could be the headline for Ahab and Naboth: “All that’s needed for evil to triumph is for good people to do nothing.” The following reinforces that truth.
The Cars Are Looking for A King
I don’t have a thing to add to Pastor Jessica’s excellent sermon this last Sunday. The fable/parable she shared has been one of my favorites for all the lessons she pulled from it in her message. I was playing around with my friend Chat GPT and after several abortive attempts, we came up with the following modernized version of Judges 9:7-15.
The Lost Benediction
Depending on the length of the sermon, I try to add a little something extra in my benedictions. This week I wrote up a benediction but then realized we’d be singing and waving our umbrellas to some New Orleans jazz.
Change of Focus This Week
Instead of sharing with you about yesterday’s sermon I’d like to invite you to do some background reading for next Sunday’s “Only Murders in the Bible.” Seeing that it is All Saints Day this Sunday, we are going to look at the very first Christian martyr, Stephen.
You Might Be Thinking It’s All About You If…
In working on Sunday’s sermon I asked my computer’s AI if she/he could come up with a few suggestions in answer to the above: "You Might be thinking it’s all about you, if…."
Prayer Changes Things
Here is a transcript of the prayer I prayed at the end of yesterday’s sermon.
Optimism, Faith, and Hope:
Practical Steps For Increasing All Three
Here are some practical, spiritual, and relational ways to grow faith, hope and optimism: